Diaper fetishism, also known as autonepiophilia or ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), is a form of erotic ageplay where adults enjoy wearing diapers and/or taking on the role of an infant or toddler.
Various Forms
There are various forms of diaper fetishism, including the active form, where the satisfaction lies in wearing adult diapers, the passive form, where adults want to feel like a baby, and the contemplative form, where sexual arousal is triggered by viewing people wearing diapers.
Important Distinctions
It is important to emphasize that diaper fetishism has nothing to do with pedophilia, as those affected have no sexual interest in children. This is emphasized both in the scientific literature and in various online communities. A study suggests that ABDL interests may be associated with specific parental behaviors, anxiety traits, and enuresis. The study found that adults with ABDL showed anxious traits and memories of parental rejection during childhood.
Integration into BDSM and Ageplay
Diaper fetishism can also be integrated into the context of BDSM and ageplay, where power dynamics, punishment, discipline, and control can play a role. However, it is important to note that the fetish can occur independently of other paraphilias, and that conventional sexual satisfaction in this form of play may or may not occur.
Support and Acceptance
Although diaper fetishism is still a taboo subject and it can be very difficult for an adult baby to find a partner who shares this fetish passion, there are online communities and professional service providers that offer support and acceptance.
Conclusion
It is important for people interested in diaper fetishism to find a supportive and accepting environment where they can express their interests in a healthy and safe way. It is also important for people who are not interested in this fetish to develop an understanding of the interests and needs of others and to respond respectfully and supportively.